hi                             ,

I know it's been a month since you sent me a message. iI just have a few things to say, that you might like or not like. But I'm going to be bluntly honest, because that's what you deserve and I want to make sure there's no gray areas.

I started hanging out with you for the intention of having a friend to have sex with, with no strings attached. Also most of the time you were a fun drunk. I wasn't looking to take advantage of you, I was looking for a mutual arrangement. It worked well for a while, but I started getting annoyed w/ the way you acted when really really drunk. You lost control a few times. I understand that happens to a lot of people, and it can get carried away. But that's not really why I chose to end it.

I had a feeling, from your actions and words, that you wanted more than the sex. We both agreed we were just having fun, but sometimes feelings will come to the surface. I'm flattered you had feelings for me, as I had some feelings for you too. I've been in that situation before and that's usually when things get complicated. The fact is I'm looking for the least amount of complication. I'm looking for a casual relationship with the least amount of emotion outside the bedroom.

I don't mind being friends but I really don't have much time to offer, I have a lot on my plate.

So let me explain what I want… my ideal situation would be for someone to hang out with for a little bit and have sex with late at night and/ or the weekend and that's pretty much it.

So               , I'll be honest. I would definitely like to get together with you and have some fun sex. We can hang out a little bit, but again I'm usually pretty busy. So if you're interested in starting over and going back to the sex, with emotion not leaving the bedroom, and just having a good time together while we're in my bed… then let me know.

Either way message me back, I'd honestly like to know
how I helped you grow as a person and helped you learn life lessons. I can continue to do that if I knew how I was helping you. So either way, I'll be waiting to hear from you.

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