Somedays I find it hard to map out where I will end up within the next five years. I know that my future is planned out for me, however I can’t help wanting to have a clue of what is going to happen next in my life. Like if I could know when some big promotion or me getting fired could change anything. I guess that most of it is our own fault. For an example I have always wanted to start a blog for about three years and every time I did I would post every day for about a week then fall through with it. I might have a glimpse of what could come if I would just stick with it. Our destination is based off of what we believe about ourselves and how determined we are. The trick is doing both, you can be determined to succeed but if you don’t believe in yourself than it will never come to past. This kind of thinking is good for all kinds of situations. As in relationships, how do you know that the person you are with is going to last unless you try at the relationship? If you are willing to give up on relationships, dreams, ideas you will never get any where in life. How would I know? Well I am currently there at this point as I am writing this. My dream in life is to have a five star restaurant and I am trying to get out of the food industry after getting fired from my last job. Some days I feel giving up on the whole dream and try and accomplish something that I so called “believe that I can actually do” like being in a business where I wouldn't have to take a risk and put myself out there and try to succeed. Whether its something small or not you need to be your own biggest cheerleader because no matter how many people believe in you, if you don’t then nothing in your current circumstance will change until you do.What I am trying to get across here is if you are where I am and you just happen to stumble upon this little article then I want you to not give up on yourself, because when you do its so hard trying to rebuild passion and heart for what you love to do. People are there to help you however there are somethings that we all need to do on our own.