Ladies and gents, these are some subtle but SERIOUS red flags that may reveal your potential lover to be a total psycho and/or bust. Take heed!
8 MAJOR Dating Red Flags
By Will Stephen
Ladies and gents, these are some subtle but SERIOUS red flags that may reveal your potential lover to be a total psycho and/or bust. Be careful out there! 1. They Respond to Texts Inconsistently [texts: - Hey awesome meeting u the other night! - Hey, nice meeting you too. - Ur so cool and hot lol - Haha thanks? - Just went through all 872 of ur tagged pics on fb and saved my favs in a folder lol what are u up 2 tonight? - Oh. Busy, sorry. - Was that weird lol? - Just tell me if u dont like me - wtf sometimes u respond, sometimes u dont i guess? - U mean so much to me already, dont fucking do this to me - OK now im getting pissed - im sorry, fuck - i really really need this please im crying] 2. They Bring Up Exes a Lot - Sooooo are we like a thing now haha? - No. For the last time, I'm dating someone. - we all have old flames but the past is the past - No. I've been in a serious relationship for four years. We're about to move in together. Please. Enough. - Ugh no offense but its kind of makes me feel weird when u keep bringing that up. i wish you could just be, like, present] 3. They Give You Weird, Backhanded Compliments [texts): (timestamped at 3:41 AM) - so what do u think about when u think about me? - Look - I'm trying to be as nice as I can. You seem like a perfectly nice person, but let me be clear: it is not going to happen. Please stop contacting me. - Awww thnks baby ur nice too but does it really need the qualifier?... ] 4. They're Really Possessive [texts: - Did you steal my dog? Did you fucking steal my dog?! - I took it 4 a walk if thats what u mean ;-) What?! You were out at work bb! - Where is my dog - At our place duh calm down - I'm calling the police - Wow not ok to talk to me like that 5. They Don't Respect Your Interests [texts: - u didnt come to my softball game - u never come to my softball games - ...nothing? - wow - i dont know if this is working out] 6. They Don't Acknowledge Boundaries [texts: - look this has been a total roller coaster, and its been amazing, but i think just need some space right now - i know it will be hard for you but i need you to respect my wishes - so please don't call me - or show up at my door and tell me you love me crying - or say anything nice about the portrait of you which i spent three straight days painting w/o sleep or food] 7. They Get Really Jealous [texts: - hey lover - whoops wrong number - sorry, that must be weird for you to get - but i AM dating someone else now, FYI - its actually going really well - think we're going to start saying "i love you" and stuff soon - never had anything so good actually - so please just stay out of my business ] 8. They're Afraid of Commitment [texts: - where did u move i still love u i painted you another painting - FROM AT&T: THIS NUMBER HAS BEEN DISCONTINUED]