Ladies and gents, these are some subtle but SERIOUS red flags that may reveal your potential lover to be a total psycho and/or bust. Take heed!
By Will Stephen
Ladies and gents, these are some subtle but SERIOUS red flags that may reveal your potential lover to be a total psycho and/or bust. Be careful out there!
1. They Respond to Texts Inconsistently
- Hey awesome meeting u the other night!
- Hey, nice meeting you too.
- Ur so cool and hot lol
- Haha thanks?
- Just went through all 872 of ur tagged pics on fb and saved my favs in a folder lol what are u up 2 tonight?
- Oh. Busy, sorry.
- Was that weird lol?
- Just tell me if u dont like me
- wtf sometimes u respond, sometimes u dont i guess?
- U mean so much to me already, dont fucking do this to me
- OK now im getting pissed
- im sorry, fuck
- i really really need this please im crying]
2. They Bring Up Exes a Lot
- Sooooo are we like a thing now haha?
- No. For the last time, I'm dating someone.
- we all have old flames but the past is the past
- No. I've been in a serious relationship for four years. We're about to move in together. Please. Enough.
- Ugh no offense but its kind of makes me feel weird when u keep bringing that up. i wish you could just be, like, present]
3. They Give You Weird, Backhanded Compliments
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- so what do u think about when u think about me?
- Look - I'm trying to be as nice as I can. You seem like a perfectly nice person, but let me be clear: it is not going to happen. Please stop contacting me.
- Awww thnks baby ur nice too but does it really need the qualifier?... ]
4. They're Really Possessive
- Did you steal my dog? Did you fucking steal my dog?!
- I took it 4 a walk if thats what u mean ;-) What?! You were out at work bb!
- Where is my dog
- At our place duh calm down
- I'm calling the police
- Wow not ok to talk to me like that
5. They Don't Respect Your Interests
- u didnt come to my softball game
- u never come to my softball games
- i dont know if this is working out]
6. They Don't Acknowledge Boundaries
- look this has been a total roller coaster, and its been amazing, but i think just need some space right now
- i know it will be hard for you but i need you to respect my wishes
- so please don't call me
- or show up at my door and tell me you love me crying
- or say anything nice about the portrait of you which i spent three straight days painting w/o sleep or food]
7. They Get Really Jealous
- hey lover
- whoops wrong number
- sorry, that must be weird for you to get
- but i AM dating someone else now, FYI
- its actually going really well
- think we're going to start saying "i love you" and stuff soon
- never had anything so good actually
- so please just stay out of my business ]
8. They're Afraid of Commitment
- where did u move i still love u i painted you another painting
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