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uPick

"The Friend Zone" is a stupid concept

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I'm so sick of people complaining that they're stuck in the Friend Zone. You don't get a pity party for being "a nice guy." For one, I'm pretty sure that seeing a non-sexual relationship with a girl as an inescacable hell kind of by default makes you not a good guy. When a dude says he's a nice guy, what he usually means is that he's too afraid to take a risk and be honest about his feelings, and that he expects people to be able to read his mind and give him what he wants without his asking for it. That doesn't happen. If you don't want to be "stuck in the friend zone," ask the girl on a date or (gasp!) stop hanging out with her.

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